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You’ve done the dating thing for years—but it seems like everything you do to find Mr. Right goes all wrong.

It’s not fun anymore. It’s not exciting anymore. And Frankly, you can’t really see the point anymore. You’re tired of wasting your time and energy on Mr. Right Now (or worse Mr. Hell No).

The bad news? No amount of dating apps, self help books, on-line dating platforms or patience can get you from where you are to where you want to be.

The good new? I’ve got the practice and the process that will.



I’m Amber Lewter, LPC and I help successful, powerful women (that’s you) excel in romantic relationships. Using my in-house methodology Love Acumen, I help you understand why disconnection happens in relationships, the real reason you keeping have the same, unresolvable issues over and over, and how to finally find or create the relationship you’ve been searching for- for good this time.


Because here’s the truth: you can’t change other people. But you can absolutely become the best, most vibrant version of yourself.

No more trying to trying to mind read your partner or analyze his behavior. No more second guessing yourself. No more having different versions of the same argument over and over. No more wasting time on trying to make it work.  Just increased self-awareness, a better understanding of real intimacy, and building a rock solid relationship.

It all starts with you. So, if you’re ready to (finally) get off the dating merry-go-round or relationship roller coaster and create the relationship of your dreams, I’d love to help you.


click here to see how we can work together.



My practice is affirming of all types of sexuality (LGBTQ) and lifestyles. I consider gender to be a fluid concept on a continuum rather than a dichotomous one.  At this point in time portions of the Love Acumen curriculum are based on gender differences (both socially and biologically) and may be applicable to LGBTQ relationships only to varying degrees. Honoring each individual’s lifestyle and sexuality is incredibly important to me, as is knowing the bounds of my competence. It is my hope that future versions of Love Acumen will be more applicable to the LGBTQ community, as my work evolves.