Hi!I’m Amber lewter

I’m a relationship expert, coach, and therapist.

Here’s the truth about love that nobody wants to hear, and everybody needs to know:

No amount of dating apps, self-help books, online dating platforms, or patience with the rough patches can get you from where you are to where you want to be.

If you want to build strong –– and I’m talking rock solid –– relationships, you don’t need to love harder. You need to love smarter.

That’s what LOVE ACUMEN is all about


It’s a methodology developed out of my years of clinical expertise and built on the one universal truth of relationships: the only part of any relationship you have any control over is yourself.


That means that until you know yourself, your natural advantages when it comes to finding and cultivating love, and your built-in pitfalls, you’re going to find it hard to have the kinds of relationships you really want. And I really, really want more for you.

25 Universal Love Truths

Want to know what the foundation of healthy love actually is? Need to understand the most powerful tool you have in a conflict? Curious about the two least attractive qualities you can cultivate? Check out these 25 Universal Love Truths I’ve uncovered in my time as a relationship therapist.

Learn to Love SMARTER

Having a relationship that you love isn’t down to luck, physical attractiveness, or patience. It’s about learning how to use what you’ve got to get what you want


Want to know what your natural advantages are when it comes to relationships –– not to mention your particular pitfalls?

About ME

I’m a licensed professional counselor with nearly a decade of experience helping people find, keep, and rekindle love –– but most importantly to you, I’m the person who’s got the process and the practice to find and create the relationship of your dreams. 

"Thank you for helping me get out of a relationship that would have been a disaster to stay in for the rest of my life.

 After the break-up there were plenty of  
ups and downs, but inevitably got me to where I am today. I got married last August, and couldn’t be happier.”
– KB, VP of Marketing, 31

"...simple yet powerful truth."

“I first met with Amber during the difficult end of a relationship. She reminded me that my journey towards better understanding myself is an ongoing process. One of the key things I’ve gained throughout my year of seeing her is the ability to question the assumptions surrounding masculinity and vulnerability, especially cultural expectations of how men should behave as partners. In the end, we’re all human, fallible, and have moments of weakness and need—I’m thankful that Amber has made me more aware of this simple yet powerful truth.”

 – T.H., College Professor, 38

"I wanted to tell you how much my time with you meant to me..."

That time taught me so much about finding inner strength and working through grief, fear, sadness and loss. I am so thankful to you for helping me recognize that ability within myself. “

– CR., School counselor, 27

Don’t Wait Any Longer. Start Forging Your Own Path Today!