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Being too capable is ruining your relationships, this is why.

The shoe on my feet, I've bought it The clothes I'm wearing, I've bought it The rock I'm rockin', I've bought it 'Cause I depend on me If I wanted the watch you're wearin', I'll buy it The house I live in, I've bought it The car I'm driving, I've bought it I depend on...

How shopping for shampoo can make you more successful at online dating

Earlier this week I was at Target walking up and down the aisles in the “Beauty” section searching for a new hair conditioner. If you’ve seen my bio-pic or know me, I have big curly hair- so I take finding the best products a bit seriously and I have been known to...

4 Effective ways to prevent your relationship from falling apart.

Last week Rebecca, a newly divorced, 30 something, professional woman was in my office discussing her divorce. Most of our conversation centered around the her husband’s infidelity and the breakdown of her marriage. Her hindsight was 20/20. Here's a bit of her...

5 Signs You’re Responsible For The Problems In Your Relationship

“Creating a healthy relationship often means confronting ourselves, not the other person.” – Charlotte Kasi It’s easy to know what your partner is doing wrong, to see all the ways he/she is letting you down and making mistakes. From the outside, it’s simple to see how...